Parenting

Remember Her; Her Family Has Been Found And This Is What They Have To Say

You all must have already seen the video of this little girl getting traumatized for life during a study session by her mother. After the video went viral, Virat Kohli came forward and expressed his views about this horrible video which shakes one up to the core.

This is what he said, “The fact that the pain and anger of the child is ignored and ones own ego to make the child learn is so massive that compassion has totally gone out of the window. This is shocking and saddening to another dimension. A child can never learn if intimidated. This is hurtful.”

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Like all of us, Kohli also called out the woman in the video for terrorizing the kid in the name of education. Finally, it’s been found that she is Bollywood singer-composer Toshi’s 3-year-old niece, Haya.

In an interview to Hindustan Times, Toshi said, “Virat Kohli and Shikhar Dhawan don’t know about us. Hamare bachche ke bare mein humein pata hai naah ki hamara bacha kaisa hai! Uska nature hai waisa… Agle hi pal woh khelne chali jaati hai. Agar aap usko chod do toh woh kahengi main mazzak kar rahi thi. Uske nature ki wajah se chod denge toh woh padai bhi nahi kar paayengi. (We know about our child better. Haya’s nature is such that after being scolded, the next minute she runs off to play. But, because of her nature if we don’t push her, she won’t study.)”

“The homework she gets in nursery, of learning numbers, she’ll never be able to learn. Woh jo rona hota hain, woh us moment ke liye tha taaki uski maa use padaaye na aur khelne de. Chota bachcha hai 2.5-3 saal ka. (All the crying was for that moment so that her mother doesn’t make her study and let her play. Haya is just about 3 years old). It’s not a big issue. Har ghar mein bachon ki alag zidd hoti hai, alag-alag tareeke ke bachche hote hain. [Ye] bachchi bahut zyada ziddi hai [lekin] humari laadli hai. (In every house there are different kind of children. Ours is a very stubborn child but is extremely dear to us),” 

He says that the video was meant for the family whatsapp group but found it’s way to the internet. Seriously, they are actually enjoying this kids misery. We seriously don’t think that this is an excuse to misbehave with a child. She will be scarred for life and they are not even realizing it. We know that children are stubborn but this is not the way to teach them. And to make a video of it to create smirks in the family groups is absolutely unacceptable.

2 Comments

  1. Smitha chheda

    Parents apni galtiyaan chupaa rahe hai….bacche ziddi hote hai …bohot ziddi hote hai…but phir unhe samjhne ka and samjhane ka ek Sahi tarika hota hai….and agn vdo shoot…jab khud apne moral bhool chuke ho aur Galti par parda daal rahe ho…Woh bacchon ko kya samjhenge and kya samjhaenge….
    Child is literally studying but the mom only interested to make fun vdo for her so called whts app grp…shame on her…😠

  2. Anjali Jain

    This what she justified is all rubbish.It was clearly show she was scaring d child even after she is saying correct she is just 3 there r many other way to teach plzz dont male it so difficult for the kids.Sham on the parents

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